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Monday, March 31, 2008

Reply to 'a true friend'

A certain person emailed me and according to her,im doing a huge mistake.she observes that every rule in the college is for our own good and its because of my lack of a positive perspective that i am viewing things in this way.she also thinks that these rules helped our successful seniors to reach where they are now.
When i joined here,ED1 was in office.and im not lying when im saying that then,i was proud to say that i was a Sahrdaya student.even though his reign was a little dictatorial,there were a lot of,a lot of qualities in the way things were run then,which made all the other stuff 'over lookable'.i even used to engage in verbal wars with my relatives and friends taking the side of the college,when they said that the college was doing the wrong things.dear friend,from the way you write,i dont think that you are a hosteler..
After the war of independence in the girls hostel,QB was so upset that she made fuss over everything trivial.
Once,when she found two girl students sitting on the same bed,QB got furious and shouted at them for practicing 'anti natural' relationship and these students were asked to meet ED2 the next day,which they did.now,last week,when one of these students had a head ache and her friend was applying some balm over her forehead,QB stormed in and asked her 'ninte appanu thala vedanayundayal ne kude keri kidakumo..'.and when her dad came to visit her in the hostel,QB told him that if this was the way he was raising her,he would soon have to take her to b'lore(apparently for 'abortion').now,are you telling me that i should,and everyone else should try to see the positive side of this?im sorry, BUT I JUST CANT!

Now,if you have any doubt on my motives.since i began this community,people have been forwarding me links and ids of govt institutions,human rights organizations,even email id of the education minister.a lot of political and student organizations have offered their help..but all that V Has said to them is 'thank you for you support'.now,if i had any intention of harming the college and setting my own house on fire,i would have done it by now.now,dear friend,i personally admire every sensible law and rule here.but do you honestly think that these people talk with the same seriousness and responsibility that they burden up on our actions and words?do you honestly think that 'drinking water after 11oclock' will severely disturb others?


This is just a voice for the Sahrdaya students who were never heard.we are not proposing a rebellion,or a revolution that would affect ours or our juniors future.if you are a day scholar,may be you should come and stay with your class mates in the hostel and experience everything first hand,and may be later you can pass judgements.if you are already a hosteler and still honestly think the way that you mailed me,well,then,i just dont know what to say.did you notice when principal said in yesterday's assembly that 'they are considering our opinions and views on how the study leave decision will be taken'? And that class reps will be called out for letting the principal know what the class thought about it?do you think that just happened for no reason?


You say that im hiding behind a curtain and others are being victimized..i have always advised everyone to express keeping themselves anonymous.the two students were scrutinized for no reason..which again shows the injust attitude of the authority.these expressions are just calls for better treatment.when any outsider advice us on going public,we inform them that we dont have any such intentions as we have everything here.all the physical comfort anyone could ask for.but whats the point in providing a golden cage?its just ornamental.for the bird inside,its still a cage.you yourself ask your seniors if they gained anything to help them to get more matured to face life in the real sense.ED1 to an extend was successful in providing a genuine corporate atmosphere where now,things are more pretentious than ever.and like i stated before,there is a lot of difference bw pretension and adaptation.they are supposed to help us gain the skill of differentiating bw right and wrong.not choose for us,according to what they think is right and wrong,which only proves their selfish motive of 'goodness' of institution,rather than that of the students,enroute making us literally..-morons.
Regards and love,
V.

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